Who Defines Right and Wrong?

Romans 8:7 because the mind of the flesh is enmity unto God, because it is not subjected to the law of God, because neither is it able.

Sometimes, God’s definition of good and evil does not sit well with unbelievers. That is because their ways and their thoughts are simply not in line—if not contrary—to God’s ways and thoughts. When God considers something bad/wrong, they disagree and say, “How could God consider that bad/wrong? I do not see what bad/wrong about that!” The focus and priority is on the self rather than on God. Jesus once called Peter “Satan” for considering things according to man rather than according to God (Matt. 16:23; Mark 8:33)!

Ironically, the unbeliever’s question backfires: Who are you to define good and evil? As imperfect, finite beings, we have neither the capacity nor the authority to define what should be considered bad/wrong, and to think otherwise is the height of arrogance. Just because “I do not see anything bad/wrong with it” does not mean that there is therefore objectively nothing bad/wrong with it. Hence, the most appropriate, humble thing to do is to admit the deficiencies our finite limitations, and defer to someone with unlimited knowledge, who knows objectively and certainly what is truly good or bad—God.

As believers who trust in God’s ways and thoughts, we must consider things according to God’s estimation, and make choices in accordance with God’s choice. Because God is all-knowing, he knows what is ultimately good and best for us. When we make decisions and choices contrary to God, we are bound for disappointment and regret. Therefore, when God reveals his choices to us in his commandments, it is not to make life difficult for us, but because he loves us and wants the best for us. That is why Moses tells the Israelites that God’s commandments are “for good for you.” (Deuteronomy 10:13)